Malachi

Is It Unloving for God to Choose Some People?

At the beginning of the last book of the Old Testament, the people of God are foot-stomping, fist-pounding, voice-raising mad. They feel that God had failed them and not loved them. In fact, in Malachi 1:2 they poke God in the eye and ask, “How have you loved us?”

Rather than beating them up, God the Father builds them up by reminding them, “I have loved you” (Malachi 1:2). And, He reminds them that He has been loving their often ungodly, ungrateful, and undeserving family for generations. “Is not Esau Jacob’s brother?” declares the Lord. “Yet I have loved Jacob but Esau I have hated (Malachi 1:2-3).” Jacob and Esau were twin brothers, both bad guys, and God chose to bring Jesus through Jacob instead of Esau and bless the nation of Israel that descended from Jacob in a way that He did not bless the nation of Edom that descended from Esau.

The issue is, regarding salvation, if God chooses some people and not others, does that make Him unloving? In the broadest sense, the Bible speaks to this issue with a constellation of words such as choose, chosen, elect, appointed, God’s plan, purpose, and predestined.

Perhaps the most thorough treatment of this issue is Romans 9. There, Paul quotes Malachi 1:2-3 saying, “…when Rebekah had conceived children by one man, our forefather Isaac, though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad — in order that God’s purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of him who calls — she was told, ‘The older will serve the younger.’ As it is written, ‘Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated’. What shall we say then? Is there injustice on God’s part? By no means!”

Did you catch the connection between being chosen by God and being loved by God? God is not obligated to choose, love, or save anyone. The fact that he chooses to save some shows how loving he truly is. For the Christian, knowing that God chose us is evidence of His love. This is exactly what Ephesians 1:4-5 teaches saying, “In love he predestined us”.

There are at least six ways that God choosing some for salvation is loving:

One. In love, God saves people from all nations. In most religions, their “god” only cares about people like them. The God of the Bible chooses people from all nations to form His Kingdom.

Two. In love, God can save the unborn. With miscarriages, abortions, and other lives lost in the womb through tragedy, it is comforting to know that God can choose to save a baby in the womb.

Three. In love, God can save the mentally limited. Some people do not have the capacity to fully understand the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ as their Savior for their sins. But, if God can choose who to apply the work of Jesus to, then there is hope for those who could otherwise be hopeless.

Four. In love, God can reach the unreached. There are reports in closed Muslim countries where missionaries cannot gain access that numerous people are becoming Christians. Jesus is apparently showing up to them in visions and dreams and saving them because He has chosen to do so.

Five. In love, God can save the worst people. Perhaps the Bible writer who speaks the most about predestination is the Apostle Paul. You may remember, he was an awful man who murdered Christians before God chose to save him. If there was ever anyone who was chosen by God, it was Paul who would have never chosen God.

Six. In love, God is not obligated to save anyone. I think of it like a massive suicide pact where numerous people chain themselves in a home, set it on fire, and decide to kill themselves. This is basically what humanity has chosen to do through sin. I see Jesus coming like a firefighter who runs into the burning building to carry numerous dying people out until he dies of smoke inhalation. How anyone could look at that firefighter and accuse them of being unloving because of who they did not save is to miss the entire point.

Which of the six ways that predestination is loving do you find most compelling? Why?

Why Does God Choose Some People but Not Others?

Romans 9:10-14: “…when Rebekah had conceived children by one man, our forefather Isaac, though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad — in order that God’s purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of him who calls — she was told, ‘The older will serve the younger’. As it is written, ‘Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated’. What shall we say then? Is there injustice on God’s part? By no means!

On the first day that my parents tried to teach me to drive, I had barely gotten out of the driveway when someone ran in front of the car and I had to slam on the brakes. The book of Malachi is like that. Only a few sentences into the book, God says he hated one brother named Esau, but loved another brother named Jacob. This statement is quoted by the Apostle Paul in his treatise on election and predestination in Romans 9. So, we need to slam on the brakes and take a look at this issue before we keep rolling along in Malachi.

The story of Abraham is this: He’s a godless man. He comes from a godless family. We read in Joshua 24:2 that his dad was a godless man. Abraham’s family is listed in Genesis 10–11. Generation after generation of the men in his family are godless sinners stacked up like cord wood for the flames of hell.

Then, God shows up and says, “I pick Abraham.” He’s not a great guy. God doesn’t pick us because we’re great; God picks us because He’s great. God is saying, I’ll start with Abraham, and I promise to give him a son. And through that son, I’m going to bring a nation. And through that nation, I’m going to bring Jesus.

Abraham is a Gentile, not a Jew. He’s saved by faith. He trusts in the promises of the God of the Bible. He circumcises himself and the nation is born. The Jewish people begin. The promise was given that he would have a son, even though his wife is barren and they’re elderly. This is going to take a miracle. But if God needs to pull off a miracle to give you a legacy, He’s glad to do that. Abraham and Sarah had a son. What was his name? Isaac, which means laughter, because God always gets the last laugh, right? That’s how it works. And then Abraham dies, and he leaves a son and grandsons, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Jacob had a brother named Esau.

These are both bad boys. See, religion teaches, “God loves the good people.” Well, then God doesn’t love anybody. Say, “God loves bad people. Yay, there’s hope for me.” So, God chose to work through the bad guy Jacob instead of the bad buy Esau so that Jesus could come as the good guy who saves bad guys.

What would you be doing right now if you were not chosen and saved by God?

What Does it Mean that God Hates People?

If you were to ask the average person to pick one word to describe the character of God, which word do you think would likely be the most common?

Holy? Maybe.
Powerful? Perhaps.
Loving? Likely.
When most people think of the God of the Bible, the first verse that comes to mind is 1 John 4:8 which says, “God is love.”

Not surprisingly, there is a verse in Malachi that is among the most confusing and controversial in the entire Bible. Speaking of twin brothers born to Isaac, God says in Malachi 1:2-3, “I have loved Jacob but Esau I have hated.”

Words are like colors in that they have differing degrees of shading and intensity. Just as the color blue can be so soft that it appears nearly white or so dark that it appears nearly black, so too words can have a range of meaning. The academic types with more degrees than Fahrenheit have spent a lot of hours debating the meaning of the original Hebrew word that we translate into English as “hate”. It is commonly said that the word can mean things like pass over, not to choose, work through one person and not the other, prefer one over the other, or have one hold priority over the other. Here are some ways that various English translations state Malachi 1:3:

“rejected” (The Living Bible, Contemporary English Bible, Jubilee Bible, New American Bible Revised Edition, New English Translation, New Living Translation)
“did not accept” (Easy to Read Version)
“chose Jacob instead of Esau” (New International Readers Version)
If this is the case, then the point made in Malachi is not that God has capricious, unwarranted, emotionally-intense hostility toward someone much like a raging, violent thug. Instead, God promised that Jesus Christ would be born through the family line of either Jacob or Esau. God chose Jacob and not Esau.

Perhaps another Scripture will help clarify the best way to maintain the integrity of Malachi’s words without making God into an ogre. Jesus, the most loving person in the history of the world, also used the word hate. In Luke 14:26, Jesus said, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple.”

We know that Jesus loved his mother, as well as his siblings and godly dad. We know that the Bible says that a husband should love His wife like Christ does the church. The Bible also says that we should honor our mother and father. So, in context, Jesus’ words regarding hatred are about preference. We are to value our relationship with Jesus above every other relationship and hold our loyalty to Him above all else. In this regard, Jesus uses the word “hate” to speak of priority and preference much like Malachi did.

What would your life be like, honestly, if God had not chosen to save you and bless you?

Malachi #2 – Learn to Honor

Do you need to learn to honor God’s authority over all aspects of your life? Like every good parent, God is a Father who needs to be respected if you are to learn, grow, and mature. As you learn to honor God’s authority you then become healthy both in and under human authority. This makes you a better Christian, spouse, parent, child, employee, and leader so that your life is blessed by God and a blessing to others.

Is Esau the Hebrew Word for “Elmo”

Malachi 1:2b-4: “Is not Esau Jacob’s brother?” declares the Lord. “Yet I have loved Jacob but Esau I have hated. I have laid waste his hill country and left his heritage to jackals of the desert.” If Edom says, “We are shattered but we will rebuild the ruins,” the Lord of hosts says, “They may build, but I will tear down, and they will be called ‘the wicked country,’ and ‘the people with whom the Lord is angry forever’.”

Imagine that you were having a rough day and told God in prayer, “I don’t feel like you love me”. That is precisely the context of Malachi chapter one. God’s response is not likely what we would have guessed.

Going back to Genesis 25:19-34 many, many years prior, God reminds His people of the story of Abraham their father in the faith. The promise was made that through that family would come Jesus Christ. Abraham’s son Isaac had twin sons – Jacob & Esau. Like many families, the boys are polar opposites. Esau is older, daddy’s favorite, tough, drives a truck, wears boots, eats what he can kill, likes country music and cage fighting, and was apparently a hairy redheaded kid as the prototype for Elmo.

Jacob is younger, a momma’s boy, got ‘most huggable’ in high school, drives a hybrid, wore Crocs, ate devoutly vegetarian cuisine grown through sustainable farming, and likes Disney Broadway musical soundtracks.

The boys started fighting in their momma’s womb and the battle still rages. From Jacob came the nation of Israel. From Esau came the nation of Edom. These nations have always warred against each other and, to some degree, their descendants still do. Jesus came from Jacob, and King Herod, who tried to kill Him, came from Esau.

When the descendants of Jacob asked God in Malachi 1:2, “How have you loved us?”, God reminded them that He had loved their family for generations. Unlike Esau, who was not chosen to carry forth the promise of the Messiah, their family was the chosen one.

The truth is, both boys were bad. Jacob’s name means “trickster” and he and his mom were known to manipulate and fool dad for the family blessing. Esau was an impetuous, uncaring man who traded his rights as the firstborn son in the family for a mere bowl of stew. The descendants of Esau became a godless nation judged by God. They got what they earned. The descendants of Esau became God’s nation blessed by God. They got grace that they did not earn.

For us who are, by faith, God’s people, the lesson is simple. Rather than looking up to heaven and wondering why we are not living there today, we should look down to hell and thank God that we are not living there today.

How has God blessed you and your family in ways that are simply not deserved?

Our Father Has Some Naughty Kids

Have you ever seen a parent sitting down holding a child on their lap and the kid winds up and slaps the adult in the face? If so, then you are able to pretty much picture what’s happening in the book of Malachi.

Spiritually speaking, the children of God (young and old) just keep slapping away while accusing God of not loving them (1:2), being evil and delighting in evildoers (2:17), being unjust (2:17), not worth serving (3:14), and blessing evildoers and making them rich while the godly remain poor and oppressed (3:15).

Rather than slapping back, God speaks love. In Malachi 1:2, God gets the first word saying, “I have loved you”. Do you know that everything begins with the Father’s love? Some of you think that God is a force; he’s impersonal. He’s not. God is a Father; he’s personal. A force does not speak to you. A force does not love you. A Father speaks to you because he loves you. “I have loved you.” This is where the Father begins.

This revelation is antithetical to every other religious system and teaching in the world. In varying ways, every other religious system is about something called “works”. It’s about what you do to earn God’s love. And if any other religion were to write this, it would say, “If you obey me, then I will love you.” It starts with you. It rises and falls with you. It’s predicated upon you. “If you obey me, then I will love you.” Only the God of the Bible says this: “I love you, and because I love you, you’re going to obey me. Your obedience does not compel me to love you. My love will compel you to obey me.” Do you see the difference?

Works based religions are like a man who walks into an orphanage with a bunch of children and says, “I’ll observe the kids for a while and I’ll adopt the best one.” The God of the Bible walks into the orphanage and says, “I’m going to adopt a lot of kids and some of them are horrible, rebellious, terrible, and awful. Nobody else wants these kids. And I’m going to love them and my love is going to change them.” God did not pick you because you’re great. God picked you because He’s great. “I have loved you.”

Now, what should their response be? “And we love you, Father!”—that’s not their response. “But you say, ‘How have you loved us?’” The entire book is a series of disputations, where God the Father tells his children in various ways, “I love you,” and they say, “No you don’t.” They’re accusing God of sinning and failing. They’re accusing God of being unloving. They’re accusing God of saying one thing and doing another.

This leaves us with two options. One, we can read it and say, “I can’t believe they did that”. Two, we can admit, “I can’t believe I still do that.”

How many of you today, if I told you, “God is a Father who loves you,” you would say, “I don’t feel that. I don’t see that. I don’t believe that”? These people are not atheists; they’re just angry.

How many of you have been there? How many of you are there? The answer is everyone. Everyone. “It doesn’t look like God loves us. It doesn’t feel like God loves us. I know that God says that He loves us, but He’s not showing that He loves us. Why am I so broke? Why is it so dark? Why are things so hard?” Be honest with God. He already knows your heart.

He’s already heard their grumbling, He’s heard their complaining, He’s heard their accusing.

Some of us are good parents as long as our children are good. As soon as our children become bad, all of a sudden, we’re bad parents—meaning, the way we respond is very different. You know who someone is when that is tested. They are testing the Father and then they’re going to see who he truly is – loving.

Sometimes You Just Need A Word from God

The more you read the Bible and learn about the Kingdom of God (what life will be like when Satan, sin, and suffering are no more), the more frustrated you can be. Paying your taxes is really frustrating when you know there’s a free place for you to live in God’s house complete with streets paved in gold (since apparently there’s so much wealth they had to find something to do with it). Imagine experiencing perfect health, enjoying perfect relationships, and eating the perfect taco.

In the days of Malachi, God’s people were sick of being sick, poor, harassed, and being on what seemed like the losing team every season. They wanted Jesus to show up, flip the handle and flush the world, and then start over. If you have ever been frustrated and fed up, broke and battered, or sick and scared then you know how they felt. In their hearts, conversations, and pulpits, they were accusing God of failing them. The people of God are hurting and their painful questions for God have turned into sinful accusations against God.

Lovingly, patiently, and perfectly, the Father showed up and took the time to build the relationship and build up those who felt beat up. It just goes to show that sometimes you just need a word from God. Nonetheless, they get a word from God in the form of the book of Malachi where 85 percent of the verses are God speaking and answering false accusations about Him failing them.

How did they get a Word from God? They were given the Word of God. In Malachi 1:1 the book is called “The oracle of the word of the Lord to Israel by Malachi.” Did you catch that? Malachi is “the word of the Lord” delivered “by Malachi” who God calls, “my messenger” (3:1). It is Malachi’s voice, but God’s words. God wrote the mail and Malachi is just the mailman. The point is simple but profound. God speaks to us firstly and mostly through the Word of God.

How is your Bible reading going? If you had to pick one issue/struggle/question that you are needing to resolve what would it be? Where can you start studying the Bible for that purpose?

Have You Ever Just Freaked Out on God?

Every parent has had “THAT DAY”! When this day hits, all the forces of darkness align and the child we care for has decided to unleash terror on the earth by completely and totally melting down. If you think this is rare, you either have never had a child or your name is Mary or Joseph. When THAT DAY goes off like a bomb, the child can be found screaming, hitting, and freaking out. Their parent can be found sighing, praying, and losing.

The book of Malachi is about THAT DAY! The children of God (young and old) have decided to declare war on God with a tantum of biblical proportions. Observing God’s response teaches us a lot about our relationship with Him and also has some tips for parents.

For starters, God reminds everyone who is on the floor kicking and screaming that He is the Father. In Malachi 1:6 He says, “I am a father”. In Malachi 2:10, He reminds everyone that they don’t really have any other parent since He’s their “one Father”. By revealing Himself as a Father, God is to be known as both in authority (sovereign), and relational (love). Next, we learn five things about God as our Father.

God knows what His kids are saying, doing, and thinking. The entire book of Malachi is a conversation between the Father and His kids as he responds to the litany of accusations that they are hurling at Him for being a bad dad.
God calls a family meeting. If your dad ever called everyone to together to sit on the couch, or gather around the table, to have an important family discussion then you understand the tone of Malachi.
God does not act like a sibling. When a child declares war on a parent by yelling accusations, throwing a fit, and making a scene, it’s a tempting moment for the parent to stop acting like a parent and start acting like a sibling. Worn down, a parent can start yelling back at the child, getting offended by the false accusations, and throw their own form of a fit. When this happens, the parent loses their authority and starts acting like one of the kids rather than the parent. God does not do this.
God meets us where we are to walk us to where we should be. As you read Malachi (something you can do in roughly 15 minutes), you’ll quickly realize that it is raw, real, and rough. But like any great parent, God the Father comes to the kids, speaks calmly, takes their hand, and begins the walk with them from where they are to where they should be.
God starts with love. Despite the children of God inciting the equivalent of a prison riot at the church, God answers their nasty question in Malachi 1:2, “How have you loved us?” not by getting defensive but rather remaining devoted saying, “‘I have loved you,’ says the Lord.”
Of the five things listed above about God the Father, which strikes you most? Why?

God the Father says, “I have loved you”

“I have loved you,” says the Lord. But you say, “How have you loved us?”

– Malachi 1:2a

Sometimes, life is incredibly disappointing, discouraging, and deflating. As believers, we read about the power of God over and over in the Bible. But, we often don’t see it show up in our lives. We also read of heaven and how wonderful everything will be when God is done with history. But in the meantime, life can feel like we are carsick kids stuck in the back of a crowded car on a long road trip to Disneyland – it will be great once we get there but it’s an awful ride in the meantime.

In the book of Malachi, God’s children (young and old) were struggling. Perhaps you can relate to them? Financially, they were in a crisis as their economy had collapsed and no relief was in sight. Politically, their little nation was getting kicked around by other nations and armies. Morally, it became the norm for people to stop obeying God and do pretty much whatever they wanted. Spiritually, folks were still dropping in on church now and then, but they just went through the motions giving little money, energy, or passion to the Lord. To make matters worse, the spiritual leaders had developed some newfangled popular teaching that God had failed. Yes, they added to God’s attributes a new one – failure! People are largely the product of the teaching they receive, and once the people were convinced that God had basically sinned against them by failing them, most everyone who was hurting starting blaming God.

Eventually, there were trendy slogans that people had against God not unlike trending social media hashtags in our day. These included the following:

“How have you loved us?” (1:2)
“How have we despised your name?” (1:6)
“How have we polluted you?” (1:7)
“‘What a weariness this is.” (1:13)
““How have we wearied him?” (2:17)
“Everyone who does evil is good in the sight of the Lord and he delights in them.” (2:17)
“Where is the God of justice?” (2:17)
“How shall we return?” (3:7)
“How have we robbed you?” (3:8)
“How have we spoken against you?” (3:13)
“It is vain to serve God.” (3:14)
“Evildoers not only prosper but they put God to the test and they escape.” (3:15)

How does this list of grievances against God strike you? Is there anything on the list that is something you have thought or maybe even said? Is there any complaint you might have against God? If so, the good news in Malachi is that God knows what you’re thinking, hears what you’re saying, and wants to meet with you to work things out for the sake of a healthy, loving relationship with Him.

Is there any complaint, grievance, or “problem” you have with God that you need to bring to Him in prayer and Bible study this week to sort out?

Malachi #1 – Learn to Love

Do you need to learn to be more loving? God is a Father and His heart is filled with love for you. Your relationship with God begins with His love for you. Understanding and experiencing this love allows you to become emotionally healthy and love God, family, and friends with the love that God gives you to share.

As You Prepare for Christmas, Start by Preparing Your Heart

As you prepare for the Christmas season and celebration of the coming of Jesus, one book of the Bible might be the most helpful. Tucked away at the end of the Old Testament, the little book of Malachi had a big purpose – to prepare people to receive Jesus when He came into the world through the womb of Mary. This was the last book of the Bible written for roughly four hundred years as people waited for the coming of Jesus. In some ways, to the people at the time, Malachi was like Revelation – the last book God wrote that tells us what happens next as we wait for Jesus to show up.

Very little is known about the author mainly because He focuses all the attention on God and none on himself. He tells us both his name and ministry as a mouthpiece for God in Malachi 1:1, “The oracle of the word of the Lord to Israel by Malachi.” In 3:1 he is simply called by God, “my messenger”. Curiously, the name Malachi literally means “messenger” as God had chosen his name to reflect his mission to be God’s mailman.

As we study Malachi together, it will be most helpful for you to simply read it for yourself multiple times. You can read the entire book quickly in maybe 15 minutes. As you read it, you will notice that of the 55 verses, 47 of them are God speaking to His people. This is an action-packed book where God does most of the talking. If you have ever wished you could just sit down with God and have Him speak to you, this is precisely what will happen as you read Malachi. The entire book is a conversation that God had with His people and wants to have with you.

Find some time to read all of Malachi at least once this week.