Spiritual Disciplines

Pray to Deepen Your Relationship with God

John 17:1 – “When Jesus had spoken these words, he lifted up his eyes to heaven, and said Father…”

Who do you talk with the most? Who do you talk about the most? That person is probably the one you love and lean on the most.

While walking on the earth, the Lord Jesus was constantly referring to God the Father. Jesus’ favorite title for God is Father and this is reported roughly 65 times in three gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke). In John’s gospel, Jesus refers to God as Father roughly 100 times. In the longest recorded prayer of Jesus, He begins by praying to God as Father yet again.

Our big brother Jesus is modeling some very powerful truths in His prayer.

First, we need God like a small child needs their parent. No matter how old we are, we are still the Father’s kids and always need His help.

Second, the God of the Bible is relational. The entire concept of the Trinity is that God is relational – one God in three Persons in perfect and eternal relationship.

Three, in any relationship, communication is key. When we read the Bible, we are listening to God speak to us. When we pray to God, He is listening to us.

Four, as a Father, God hears and answers prayer like any parent – yes, no, later. Just because we do not get God to give or do what we ask does not mean that He is not hearing. Rather, His answer may simply be no or later. It might not be His will, or it might not be His timing.

How is your time listening to God’s Word, and praying to God going each day?

Pray Like Jesus: Pray to Pull Heaven Down

John 17:1 – “When Jesus had spoken these words, he lifted up his eyes to heaven, and said…”

It seems like every good superhero movie in some form or fashion borrows the storyline of the Bible. The people of earth are in danger, and a hero comes from another planet to defeat some evil villain and save the lives of people otherwise doomed to destruction.

Somewhere deep in the human soul, it seems like we know that our only hope is a savior coming in from outside our fallen planet. The storyline of the Bible is even more fantastic than any comic. God came down from Heaven on a mission to seek and save people on the earth. His name is Jesus Christ.

The longest recorded prayer of Jesus Christ occupies the entire chapter of John 17. There, Jesus begins to pray by looking up. Prayer is how we look up to the Kingdom of God. Prayer is how we invited the hope, help, and healing of the Kingdom to come down to the earth. While we remain on the earth, we need to look up to heaven as Jesus did for at least four reasons.

This world is not normal. This world is filled and fraught with sin that brings suffering. The Kingdom of God is normal, and this world is abnormal. When we look up and pray, we are inviting God to make this abnormal world like His Kingdom.
This world is not home. One day, we will die and be in the Kingdom forever. When we look up and pray, we remind ourselves where our real Home is.
This world is not forever. This world is coming to an end and will be replaced by the perfect eternal Kingdom of God. When we look up and pray, we remind ourselves that whatever needs we are praying for today will be answered in full on the final day.
This world is where we pull heaven down or pull hell up. Standing on the earth, when we choose sin, folly, rebellion, bitterness, strife, lies, pride and the like we are literally pulling hell up into our life because in eternity the only place those things will be is in hell. By looking up to heaven in prayer, the Holy Spirit helps us choose holiness, wisdom, obedience, forgiveness, love, truth, humility and the like and, in so doing, are pulling heaven down into our life. Prayer is where we look up and pull heaven down rather than looking down to pull hell up.
What are you most looking forward to in the Kingdom of God forever?

Pray Like Jesus: 8 Prayer Principles

Nearly every religion has some form of prayer. But, for the Christian, who we pray to, how we pray, why we pray, and what we pray for is unique. In God becoming a person on the earth, Jesus models for us perfect prayer. In John 17, the entire chapter is the transcript of the longest recorded prayer that we have from Jesus that is not recorded anywhere else in the Bible.

To help you understand Christian prayer, the following 8 prayer principles summarizing the Bible’s teaching about prayer might be of assistance:

Prayer can be old or new. Old prayers are when we pray the Scriptures, the prayer of another godly person, or a prayer that we have prayed in the past and return to now and then.
Prayer can be aloud or silent. Since God knows your thoughts, even if you are praying silently (e.g. on the job, or while taking a test at school), God is listening.
Prayer can be written or verbal. Prayer in written form can include things like journaling or keeping a prayer diary where you make note of answered prayers. Prayer in verbal form can be you talking to God aloud in a conversational tone or singing to God alone or with other Christians.
Prayer can be in words or songs. Some people talk to God with words of prose. Some people talk to God with words of poetry.
Can be speaking or listening. Like any relationship, it is important to learn both to communicate and also listen in your relationship with God. Prayer includes both speaking to God and listening to God.
Can be short or long. Short prayers sometimes are the best, like crying out “help” when we are in over our head. Long prayers can be helpful to help us verbally process something, unburden, or save us from gossiping to others when we need to talk something out.
Can be public or private. Public prayer can be over a meal in public, in church, during a Bible study, as a family, with friends, or simply placing a hand on someone’s shoulder who is hurting and interceding for them in love. Private prayer can be done anytime and anywhere you are alone with God.
Can be alone or in a group. Because you have a personal relationship with God, it is good to talk to God alone. Because a Christian is adopted into a family, it is good to have personal relationships with others who also have a personal relationship with God.
Which of these do you think you are strongest at having made spiritual progress? Which of these do you think you are weakest and could grow in learning?

Pray Like Jesus: The Shortest Distance Between Two People is Prayer

The Bible is the most brutally honest and genuinely real recounting of the pains and pleasure of real life for real people. In its pages, we even get to see the real God unfiltered on his darkest days as a man among us. The Bible invites us in to see Jesus disrespected, dishonored, and disgraced – even by family and friends. We see him yelling in anger, cheering with laughter, and weeping in agony. We see him worshiped and tortured. We see him exalted and despised.

The Bible is not written by anybody trying to sell you anything by sanding off the edges and adding plenty of lacquer to make it shiny. No, the Bible is the result of honest people telling the true story about real life. Sometimes, when we read the Bible we can forget that it is written by real people for real people.

As we are studying Jesus’ “High Priestly Prayer” in John 17, it is important to make note of Jesus’ friend and disciple John for faithfully recording the prayer by the divine enablement of the Holy Spirit. This lengthy prayer does not appear in the synoptic gospels (Matthew, Mark, and Luke) but is recorded in John’s Gospel alone. Had John not included Jesus’ prayer, we would be without any record of this great and vital moment in world history.

90-percent of John’s Gospel is unique to John. If he had not shared with us His eye-witness life with Jesus, there would be a gap in much of our understanding about Jesus’ life and ministry. John is like Jesus’ little brother, faithfully at Jesus’ side. He was present at the most intimate parts of Jesus’ life. John saw the miracles and the mundane. John was there for the good times and the griefs. Jesus and John are so close that he becomes one of the three disciples Jesus considers his closest advisers, and many scholars believe John is “the disciple Jesus loved” (John 13:23, 19:26, 20:2, 21:7, 20). After Jesus ascended to heaven, John became the leader of the earliest pastors. He wrote 1, 2, 3 John, and this great biography of Jesus, the Gospel of John, along with the book of Revelation.

So, in John 17 we see one of Jesus’ most intimate moments in prayer with his Father related to us honestly by one of Jesus’ most intimate friends. It just goes to show that the shortest distance between two people is prayer. Jesus and John were close friends because they prayed with and for each other. If you want to be close to someone, the lesson of John 17 is to pray with them and pray for them.

Who can you be praying with and for to build your relationship?

John #34 – Pray For Yourself: John 17:1-5

The best way to start this year is by talking to God about your plans and listening to hear what He has to say. Deepen your relationship with God by learning how to pray for yourself by studying the longest prayer that Jesus ever prayed.

Pray Like Jesus: Pray for Yourself

What is your history with prayer?

I grew up in a Catholic family and even attended Catholic school for a few years as a kid. I learned to pray memorized prayers from various saints and church traditions, but I did not much understand a personal relationship with God or conversational prayer.

In college, I became a Christian reading the Bible and attended what might have been the first Bible study. The group leader meant well but put me in an awkward spot when he asked me to open our time together in prayer. I had no clue how to pray in a group and so I told him I needed to learn how to do that. He kindly opened us up in prayer which got me off the hook. By hearing other people pray, I started to learn how to pray for myself. It was kind of like learning to talk as a child – you hear other people speak and learn how to speak for yourself.

Perhaps the best way to learn how to pray is by listening to Jesus pray. In John 17, the entire chapter is the transcript of the longest recorded prayer that we have from Jesus. In it, Jesus prays for:
1) Himself (17:1-5)
2) Christians (17:6-19)
3) Non-Christians (17:20-26)
The prayer is not found anywhere else in the Bible and if the Holy Spirit had not prompted John to write it down, it would have been lost forever.

The prayer is sometimes called the “High Priestly Prayer”, and the “Holy of Holies” of the New Testament. The Scottish preacher John Knox had John 17 read to him every day as he as dying to prepare his soul for eternity. The Irish preacher Marcus Rainsford published a 500-page commentary on the prayer. The bottom line is that John 17 is a big deal. If Jesus needed to pray, we all do. If Jesus did not feel bad praying for His needs, neither should we.

Here’s how Jesus’ prayer begins as we learn how to pray for our own needs as He did:

John 17:1-5: “When Jesus had spoken these words, he lifted up his eyes to heaven, and said, ‘Father, the hour has come; glorify your Son that the Son may glorify you, since you have given him authority over all flesh, to give eternal life to all whom you have given him. And this is eternal life, that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent. I glorified you on earth, having accomplished the work that you gave me to do. And now, Father, glorify me in your own presence with the glory that I had with you before the world existed.’”

Schedule some time today, even right now, and let God know what your personal needs are in prayer.

Malachi #5 – Learn to Give

Are you a generous person with your words, works, and wealth? The key to a healthy relationship with God is to understand that He has generously given you His only Son as the greatest gift that could possibly be given. As you grow to appreciate that God is a generous giver, you will be freed up to be a more generous giver to God, family, and friends. Learning this lesson will improve all of your relationships and bring joy to your soul.

Taking God’s Word to Heart

Malachi 2:1-2: “And now, O priests, this command is for you. If you will not listen, if you will not take it to heart to give honor to my name, says the LORD of hosts, then I will send the curse upon you and I will curse your blessings. Indeed, I have already cursed them, because you do not lay it to heart.”

There’s an old adage that says perhaps God gave us two ears and one mouth because we should listen twice as much as we speak. That insight holds a hold of truth.           

The God of the Bible is a relational God. Because God is relational, He also speaks to us and wants us to listen. The problem addressed in Malachi is one that is true in every day. Leaders who were supposed to listen to God and then echo His instruction to the people were not listening. We don’t know exactly why. Maybe their life was a mess and they didn’t want to change? Maybe the powerful people, big donors, and exhausting religious types in their ministry would declare war on them if they told them everything that God said to say? Maybe they were lazy and didn’t like to go to all the work of studying and teaching God’s Word?           

Whatever the reason, the result was ruining both the leaders and their followers. In our relationship with God, everything rises or falls with our willingness to listen. Here is a little equation to help simplify things:

Listening + Obeying = Honoring

Taking something in our ears is much easier than welcoming it into our heart. That means we are supposed to love the truth, obey the truth, and submit to the truth. When God speaks (and He always is starting with the Bible and our conscience both lead by the Holy Spirit), we have two options on how to respond. There’s a clue in this Scripture as God is called “the LORD of hosts”. That little phrase is pregnant with military meaning and refers to God ruling over holy angels and unholy demons. In heaven, God spoke to all the angels. Those who listened and took it to heart remained angels. Those who did not listen or take it to heart became demons.           

When God speaks, our response is either angelic or demonic.

Is there anything God has been speaking to you that you aren’t taking to heart?

How’s Your Spiritual Diet?

Malachi 2:1-2: “And now, O priests, this command is for you. If you will not listen, if you will not take it to heart to give honor to my name, says the LORD of hosts, then I will send the curse upon you and I will curse your blessings. Indeed, I have already cursed them, because you do not lay it to heart.”

When each of our five children were little, my wife Grace was amazing to watch. For her entire life, she had studied health and nutrition. Once the kids showed up, she knew exactly what to feed them and what not to feed them. As I asked her to inform my ignorance, she explained that the children’s digestive system meant that their little body could not process all foods. Many would make them sick or even cause them to develop lifelong allergies if they were introduced into their diet too early.           

I had no idea and had I been the one feeding the kids, it would not have gone well. The old adage “you are what you eat” is apparently quite true. And what is true of your body is also true of your soul. In Matthew 4:4, Jesus said that we should feed our soul the word of God and that God’s “word” was soul “bread”. Practically, when I teach the Bible at church, I am to feed the souls of our church family with the same care that Grace feeds the bodies of our family at home.

In Malachi, God, through the prophet, keeps rebuking the Old Testament pastors (called priests) publicly. These are the leaders who are also supposed to be the feeders. But they are not listening to God and feeding the people healthy doctrine. God is passionate about seeing His children well fed so they can be healthy rather than sick. This is a bit like the conversation Jesus had with Peter when He told him “feed my sheep”.          

Like the priests, there are many people who God expects to feed the souls of others – pastors, ministry leaders, moms, dads, teachers, coaches, spouses, counselors, authors, friends, etc. To feed someone is a great honor, and great responsibility. This is why James 3:1 says, “…we who teach will be judged with greater strictness.”           

Who feeds your soul?

Whose soul do you feed?          

What are you eating? What are you feeding others?

In Titus 2:1, the Bible tells us to “teach what accords with sound doctrine”. That word for “sound” is sometimes translated “healthy”? Why? Because when rightly taught, the Word of God makes the soul of a person healthy so that they become increasingly healthy from the inside out.

Is there anything you are learning or consuming in the form of content (videos, books, blogs, social media, television, movies, podcasts, etc.) that is not healthy and is making your soul unhealthy?

Malachi #3 – Learn to Listen

Do you consider yourself a good listener? One key to every healthy relationship is being a good listener. Sadly, sometimes believers don’t like what God is saying, so they choose to listen to a bad teacher who tells them what they want to hear rather than what God has said. As you grow to heed God’s Word and hear God’s voice you will be able to walk in the destiny that God has for you and your family.

Sometimes You Just Need A Word from God

The more you read the Bible and learn about the Kingdom of God (what life will be like when Satan, sin, and suffering are no more), the more frustrated you can be. Paying your taxes is really frustrating when you know there’s a free place for you to live in God’s house complete with streets paved in gold (since apparently there’s so much wealth they had to find something to do with it). Imagine experiencing perfect health, enjoying perfect relationships, and eating the perfect taco.

In the days of Malachi, God’s people were sick of being sick, poor, harassed, and being on what seemed like the losing team every season. They wanted Jesus to show up, flip the handle and flush the world, and then start over. If you have ever been frustrated and fed up, broke and battered, or sick and scared then you know how they felt. In their hearts, conversations, and pulpits, they were accusing God of failing them. The people of God are hurting and their painful questions for God have turned into sinful accusations against God.

Lovingly, patiently, and perfectly, the Father showed up and took the time to build the relationship and build up those who felt beat up. It just goes to show that sometimes you just need a word from God. Nonetheless, they get a word from God in the form of the book of Malachi where 85 percent of the verses are God speaking and answering false accusations about Him failing them.

How did they get a Word from God? They were given the Word of God. In Malachi 1:1 the book is called “The oracle of the word of the Lord to Israel by Malachi.” Did you catch that? Malachi is “the word of the Lord” delivered “by Malachi” who God calls, “my messenger” (3:1). It is Malachi’s voice, but God’s words. God wrote the mail and Malachi is just the mailman. The point is simple but profound. God speaks to us firstly and mostly through the Word of God.

How is your Bible reading going? If you had to pick one issue/struggle/question that you are needing to resolve what would it be? Where can you start studying the Bible for that purpose?

Spirit Filled Jesus: Week 7

Who has hurt you and caused pain that you are struggling to heal from? In this Sunday’s sermon, “Seven Reasons to Forgive”, you will learn that forgiveness is a gift will completely transform you.